Love and Logistics
John said all you need is love, but that is not always the case.
Some times there are obstacles that are unavoidable during
a certain point. Such as job transfers, certain family obligations
or waiting for them to separate from the ex. These things can
sometimes be worked thru an amount of patience, co-operations
or the painful need to just wait out the difficulties.
The point is that LOVE is not so simple, and not always
enough to work thru the amount of Love that is shared
between the two partners.
What is the answer? In my situation it was patience,
and a certain amount of painful seperation and trust
that she was sincere and she would return as soon as
the clouds of the difficulties cleared. At a certain point
we must rely on the amount of EMOTIONAL CAPITAL
, which has been invested. If it was/invited one should allow
for time and conations to work them self.

But maybe the case is that the separation is too painful.
And that penitence can ruin everything, which has been INVESTED.
ONE MAY END UP BANKRUPT OF THE LOVED ONE AND A TREMENDUS
amount of regret for the actions by either partner.
So I have realized that if is best for one partner to oblige any
request required by the other and trust that the time away
will make the relationship stronger, after the time away.
Chances are that will be the case.

So Notlancealot has lived up his name, ruining hat could have been
been one of those relationships that last for a very long time
and left with a good amount of shame and regret of his actions.
Knowing the chances of recovery SLIM TO NONE, LEANING
LIKE THE PIZZA TOW TOWAR NEVER.

Best of luck if you find your self in such a position